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Psychologist: 60 essential phrases that will make your child happy.
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We are talking with their children each day, but do you notice what you say to your children? Most often, they scold you or say you are unhappy with them. This is wrong, because every wrong to say the phrase could affect the whole life of your child: to instill in him a lot of complexes and humiliate. Psychologist Elena Makarenko offered 60 phrases and actions that definitely need to say and do for your child.
Talk:
1. I love you.
2. I love you, no matter what.
3. I love you, even when you're mad at me.
4. I love you, even when I'm mad at you.
5. I love you, even when you're far away from me. My love is always with you.
6. If I could choose any child in the world, I would still choose you.
7. I love you like the moon, the stars and around the back.
8. Thank you.
9. I like to play with you today.
10. What is your favorite memory of the day when you and I ...
Tell us:
11. The story of his birth or adoption.
12. About how you "bill and coo" to him when he was little.
13. The story of how you choose his name.
14. Statement of his age.
15. To learn how to meet his grandparents.
16. What are your favorite colors.
17. Sometimes you too hard.
18. What when you squeeze his hand and squeezes it 3 times, it is a secret code, which means - "I love you».
19. What's the plan.
20. What are you doing now.
Listen:
21. His child in the car.
22. What is your child talks about their toys, and think about how it is important to him.
23. The question, from which it is clear that the child really needs your help.
24. At one second longer than allowed by your patience.
25. The feelings behind the words of your child.
Ask:
26. Why do you think this happened?
27. Do you think that will issue from which it is clear that the child really needs your help if ...
28. How can we find out?
29. What are you thinking?
30. What is your best memory of the day?
31. What do you think, what "it" tastes?
Lead the:
32. How to do something, rather than banning it to do.
33. As to whistle in the grass.
34. How to shuffle the cards, turn them into a house.
35. How to cut food.
36. How to fold laundry.
37. How to find information when you do not know the answer.
38. The attachment to your husband (wife).
Take time:
39. To watch the construction sites.
40. To look at birds.
41. To help your child prepare you.
42. Go to some place together.
43. Digging in the dirt together.
44. In order to carry out tasks in the pace of your child.
45. To just sit with your child while he plays.
will delight your child:
46. Make a surprise and take away in his room.
47. Put the chocolate in crepes.
48. Lay meal or snack in the form of a smiley.
49. Make some sound effects when helping him to do something.
50. Play with him on the floor.
Otpuskai:
51. Guilt.
52. Your thoughts on how it should have been.
53. Your need to be right.
Give:
54. Look at the child's good eye.
55. Smile when your child comes into the room.
56. reciprocate when the child concerns you.
57. Attitude contact before to say something (to correct) that the child really heard you.
58. Give your child the opportunity to cope with their frustration (anger, rage), before you assist him.
59. Do the bath at the end of a long day.
60. Choose your own favorite way to be kind to your child.
Child needs more love and less shouting and complaining. If you are not a child spoiled by the actions and words, then let your child enjoy plenty of them! Do his childhood the happiest!
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Talk:
1. I love you.
2. I love you, no matter what.
3. I love you, even when you're mad at me.
4. I love you, even when I'm mad at you.
5. I love you, even when you're far away from me. My love is always with you.
6. If I could choose any child in the world, I would still choose you.
7. I love you like the moon, the stars and around the back.
8. Thank you.
9. I like to play with you today.
10. What is your favorite memory of the day when you and I ...
Tell us:
11. The story of his birth or adoption.
12. About how you "bill and coo" to him when he was little.
13. The story of how you choose his name.
14. Statement of his age.
15. To learn how to meet his grandparents.
16. What are your favorite colors.
17. Sometimes you too hard.
18. What when you squeeze his hand and squeezes it 3 times, it is a secret code, which means - "I love you».
19. What's the plan.
20. What are you doing now.
Listen:
21. His child in the car.
22. What is your child talks about their toys, and think about how it is important to him.
23. The question, from which it is clear that the child really needs your help.
24. At one second longer than allowed by your patience.
25. The feelings behind the words of your child.
Ask:
26. Why do you think this happened?
27. Do you think that will issue from which it is clear that the child really needs your help if ...
28. How can we find out?
29. What are you thinking?
30. What is your best memory of the day?
31. What do you think, what "it" tastes?
Lead the:
32. How to do something, rather than banning it to do.
33. As to whistle in the grass.
34. How to shuffle the cards, turn them into a house.
35. How to cut food.
36. How to fold laundry.
37. How to find information when you do not know the answer.
38. The attachment to your husband (wife).
Take time:
39. To watch the construction sites.
40. To look at birds.
41. To help your child prepare you.
42. Go to some place together.
43. Digging in the dirt together.
44. In order to carry out tasks in the pace of your child.
45. To just sit with your child while he plays.
will delight your child:
46. Make a surprise and take away in his room.
47. Put the chocolate in crepes.
48. Lay meal or snack in the form of a smiley.
49. Make some sound effects when helping him to do something.
50. Play with him on the floor.
Otpuskai:
51. Guilt.
52. Your thoughts on how it should have been.
53. Your need to be right.
Give:
54. Look at the child's good eye.
55. Smile when your child comes into the room.
56. reciprocate when the child concerns you.
57. Attitude contact before to say something (to correct) that the child really heard you.
58. Give your child the opportunity to cope with their frustration (anger, rage), before you assist him.
59. Do the bath at the end of a long day.
60. Choose your own favorite way to be kind to your child.
Child needs more love and less shouting and complaining. If you are not a child spoiled by the actions and words, then let your child enjoy plenty of them! Do his childhood the happiest!
via takprosto cc
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