The pain from a relationship in which you are "sort of like like" Bashny.Net

It's a horrible feeling when you put your time and your emotions in man and still not sure or not sure you need him (her) or not.



When she asked about the feelings of Man, the answer is likely, it sounds like this: "He likes you, but perhaps not enough».

It can not simply give us peace. He seems to be doing nice things and behaves quite friendly, but can not give what we mean by normal relations.

Of course, there are possible explanations for this behavior. Perhaps it is too heavily loaded to work. Perhaps his heart is not healed after breaking up with his ex-girlfriend. Or is he just afraid to be bound by relationships. It may be that you and likes it, but it scares your excessive enthusiasm and perseverance.


He wants something more than a physical relationship, but at the same time, he likes to play. May meet with several girls at the same time.

No matter for what reason, if a guy says he does not want to be in a relationship, he means just that. I'm sure he's worried about you, he likes to spend time with you and yes, like you. Just this is not enough.

Perhaps, at some point, he lost the ability to love. Maybe he just likes to control their emotions.

Most women are looking for a challenge in itself. They think they should have to try harder, actively take care of yourself - the result would have been different.

The painful truth is that none of what you do or say will change his feelings. If you will consider it their problem - it'll be nothing but hurt myself.

It is clear that the situation is very difficult to complete, which was invested so much energy, it is difficult to accept things as they are. You focus on what you want to hear and ignore all the dangerous signs, because dreams that attitude led somewhere.

You cling to a glimmer of hope. You do provide reasons for deciding to stay in such an ambiguous attitude.

After all, in any case, you will be hurt. The best way to end it now and try to understand how a woman like you could ignore all these dangerous signs, and why he gave you leave. You feel that he is gone, taking with them a part of you, and leaving behind a void ...

Sadly, yes. But! He used you. He knew how interested you ever tried to stop you.

What's worse, your feelings for each other are not comparable. It was very comfortable to know that you are indifferent to him and you think he understands what was coming. You're stuck in a situation where you need to call a spade a spade.

Instead of continuing to wishful thinking, to set yourself specific goals. Maybe it's better if he does not respond to your signals are clear.

We want to reassure ourselves and believe that we are loved, despite all external appearances to the contrary. We feel that we compromise our values, and it has a devastating effect on us.

Although it seems that the solution is obvious that this problem is usually not one of those that are solved quickly.

But in any case, you have to understand - it's not you, it's him. If he likes you (I mean, really like), it will be obvious, since it will work. If he does not make them - it means is to reconcile and accept things as they are.

Jenn Chan