Women's misconceptions about sex Bashny.Net

Modern man and woman in bed often behave either as instructors in sex, whether as actors porn - they are 'technical' in the extreme, but psychologically helpless.

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So what are the most common modern errors? So, the top list of women's mistakes in front of you.

Error №1: «Random connection - not a crime for the modern woman." Of course (unless you consider this aspect from a religious point of view). However, unsystematic communication with different partners do not involve emotional involvement in the process, so when choosing a style of relationship, a woman impoverishes not only his spirituality but also their sexuality: after sex - not in the body and in the head, and 80% feeling a woman in the during sex depends on its relation to the partner.

Error №2 - the belief: "If I do not experience orgasm, so - I was frigid." A truly frigid women is small enough, so the lack of pleasure during sex - the result of poor workmanship or a partner, or inexperience and poor knowledge of the body of the woman, or a simple lack of emotional fullness contact. Only in very rare cases, the reason is physiological characteristics of women.

Error №3 logically linked to the previous one: "I have to have an orgasm." However, sexual relations - such a thin area where no one owes nothing to. It's great if a woman an orgasm, but if she had not experienced - do not guard, especially when the whole enjoyed it from happening.

Only the lack of confidence in a partner, and (I - defective woman!) Forcing women to lie and to portray an unearthly pleasure. This misconception is particularly clearly demonstrates the strength of the impact on our public opinion: that's a couple of centuries ago, women's virtue was, on the contrary, coldness. And only in the last century standards radically changed: now the women have inspired sexy "male pattern" - they are pioneers, should be ready anytime, anywhere and always owe over. However, even the most passionate women often do not experience orgasm.

The implication of this - a mistake №4: «If you do not have an orgasm, it is easier to lie to the partner and pretend that all the" right "than to indulge in unpleasant for both explanations." This view is the risk that an orgasm, you can and do not get at all ever, because if did not work the first time - have a chance to develop, explaining the partner, as it should, or at least - how not to. And if for the first time to remain silent, it is likely that the same will be the 10th and 100th, and then just seems foolish to admit that your partner does something wrong, as you need and want: after all, at the same time it means a heavy need to recognize that all this time, it was sheer pretense and acting ... not any relationship can stand the test of such recognition, so the woman is held hostage to their own lies.

On the other hand, if the relationship is one-time - sometimes it is easier not to explain what and how, but simply to pretend that all is well. But who knows how to turn the fate, and whether a person is truly random in your life? Therefore, if there is the slightest doubt about the fact that you never see - be honest.

Error №5 - fall in love with the random partner. The modern woman - a creature sometimes paradoxical "to build castles in the air" and invent the prince she can even wake up and not know where it is not known with whom. This is - the result of a thousand-year program to ensure survival of the species: the woman should start a family, he continued to race and that the offspring was not on her fragile shoulders. The deep layers of the psyche work train: just had sex - it was possible to get pregnant, it was possible to get pregnant again - we must build a "cell of society» ...

All have been changed, a woman has had an opportunity to raise the offspring of their own, and sometimes even better than it would have made a man ... But tried and tested programs insure it from lone motherhood, causing fall in love (at least an hour!) To the person with whom she sleeps.

Misconception №6: assume that sex to something obliges man. Not that sex was not a reason for dating, here we are on the other: sex - definitely not a reason to blackmail. Trying to manipulate a partner in style: "I'm with you oversleep, and I for it must be so-and-so" or "until I think I sleep with you I will not!" - Degrades primarily the woman herself. In such a situation, she evaluates himself as a commodity itself sets the price and she agrees to sell itself for a certain material or moral equivalent - therefore, it's the same prostitution, alas.

Number 7 - the belief that "during sex, men pay the closest attention to the figure of his partner, her skin, hair, manicure and other nuances." Forced to upset you: with very few exceptions - do not pay. The man, firstly, the perceived image of holistic, integrated, without fixing the details (although this does not mean that the details are not important if the pieces will not develop into an attractive puzzle, the man at all with this woman in bed will not appear). Secondly, a man (especially the first time) is much more concerned about the size, elasticity and efficiency of its members than the size of the hips partner: if the hip "did not fit" on the configuration - it simply would not have appeared together in bed, as has been said .

Number 8 is a misconception about the need to conform to sexual stereotypes - that is, as the right woman should behave in bed.

2 There are dangerous extremes. The first - the idea that all men love passionate, wild cats. Not everyone! Some so extreme enough in their daily lives that they just want to bed rest, that is - kindness and gentleness. While the girl, watching movies, poses as a passionate tigress, a man realizes that for more than 10 days, he did not survive the marathon - and wisely goes the distance, until his disgrace is not disqualified. If the girl is really so temperamental - it's better for both, but if she's just pretending - it risks losing a man who could easily make her happy.

The problems is the opposite belief that "a woman should be the subject of conquest", ie, that a man should try to be like her, and she - graciously offered him their charms to get pleasure. Remember beam exercises involve not all ...

Harmful (or even lifetime!) View that man, if he is the initiator of sex, should be concerned about its security. Is not a fact! Rather, such a concern is a welcome exception, so the girl is ready to enter into relationship with a man, you should take care of contraception itself: after all, the responsibility will eventually - it (in the form of pregnancy followed by abortion or birth of a child). Error №9 expensive it can do.

Finally №10 (but certainly not least) - a banal untidiness. Alas, even in this age of the domination of cosmetics women are often very similar to medieval ladies, hiding the smell of unwashed body odor of perfume. If a woman does not comply with the rules of hygiene - it is a huge mistake. It's not the smell and not even in the "bouquet" of bacteria, which she cultivates in himself and who is ready to bestow his partner. The fact that a person with such contempt related to the body, does not like himself, so - will not be able to love and others.